Well ... as someone who LIKES paying for stuff when I'm out on a date. I'd say you should just do whatever feels right for both of you and don't restrict your possibilities just because there's some rule written in the book of Ultra Good Feminism or something. I really don't believe that every instance of someone paying for a woman's dinner is somehow contributing to the oppression of women. Neither of you should feel like he should HAVE to pay, but if he wants to pay (having nothing to do with whether or not you're broke), then don't sweat it too much.
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branchandroot
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Date: 2008-07-01 09:57 pm (UTC)