When people honk at me for right-turn-on-red, I sit there. Even if I was about to go, I will sit there. I will also turn off my turn signal until right before the light changes. And I will sit there. Because I believe that there is a time and a place for the horn and right-on-red is not that place unless there is a right turn light involved and it is being ignored.

So, yeah, I'm right there with you. :)